REFLECTIVE INSIGHT #006 - THE CHEMICAL OR THE CAGE: WEAVING OUR PEOPLE BACK INTO THE LIGHT
A different story
A while ago, I was sitting in a workshop with people who work with addiction. I heard stories that did not fit the usual script we are given. We have been told for a hundred years that certain chemicals are like a hook that never lets go. But the data shows something else. Why does one person use a substance and walk away, while another loses everything to it?
The answer is not found in a lab, it is found in the Woven Universe. When a person is cut off from their land, their family, and their purpose, they are living in a state of disorder. This is what we see too often in Taitokerau.
The experiment
There was a famous study called Rat Park. Scientists found that rats kept in a lonely, empty cage would drink drugged water until they died. But rats in a park-with friends, space, and things to do-mostly ignored the drugs. The conclusion was simple: the opposite of addiction is not just staying clean, it is connection.
REFLECTIVE INSIGHTS #004 - UNRAVELLING THE GREAT LIE: WHY WE ARE NEVER TRULY ALONE
The feeling of being alone
There is a heavy feeling hanging over our towns lately, a kind of quiet isolation that should not exist in a place as connected as the North. We are surrounded by whānau, yet many people feel lonely. This happens because we have been sold a big lie. We have been told that we are solo agents, or "self-made" people who are only responsible for ourselves.
We have been taught to think of ourselves like separate pool balls on a table, clicking against each other but never truly joining. This is a bad explanation of life. It is a way of thinking that makes us sick and disconnects us from the strength of our community.
The mistake of separation
For nearly two hundred years, the systems brought to our shores have focused on the "individual." This way of thinking treats people as separate parts and carves up the land into private blocks. It disconnects the soil from the water and the people from the land.
REFLECTIVE INSIGHT #002 - REFLECTIONS ON TE WHAIAO - FINDING LIGHT IN THE TRANSITION
The grey space
Have you ever woken up early in Taitokerau, stood on the grass, and watched that grey time just before the sun pops up? It is not dark anymore, but it is not quite light yet either. In our traditions, we call this Te Whaiao. It is the shimmering space where things are changing.
Lately, it feels like our whole community is standing in that grey space. We are leaving behind old ways of struggling and looking toward a future where we finally thrive. It can feel a bit scary when you can’t see the whole path yet, but Te Whaiao is actually a place of great power. It is the bridge between what was and what will be.
The light inside
As I look at the Pōhutukawa trees starting to turn red along our coast, I am reminded of the light that Ihu brought into the world. He talked about a light that the darkness could never put out. This is not just a nice story; it is a description of the very energy that holds the world together.
REFLECTIVE INSIGHT #001 - THE POWER OF CONNECTION: WHY THE BOTTOM LINE IS A LIE
Sitting on the porch
Tēnā koutou, e te iwi. Pull up a chair here on the porch with me. Lately, I have been sitting with a couple of books that might seem like they come from different worlds. One is about the deep secrets of quantum physics, and the other is an old Māori translation of the Gospels.
At first, you might think a scientist and a preacher have nothing to say to each other. But when I look at them through our Ngāpuhi lens, they are telling the same story. They both say that nothing in this world lives by itself. Everything is connected, from the stars in the sky to the mangroves in the Hokianga.
The tickle effect
In the world of science, there is something called entanglement. It sounds fancy, but the idea is simple. It means that when two things are connected at a deep level, they share one life. You could put one part on the moon and keep the other here in Taitokerau.