REFLECTIVE INSIGHTS #004 - UNRAVELLING THE GREAT LIE: WHY WE ARE NEVER TRULY ALONE

The feeling of being alone

There is a heavy feeling hanging over our towns lately, a kind of quiet isolation that should not exist in a place as connected as the North. We are surrounded by whānau, yet many people feel lonely. This happens because we have been sold a big lie. We have been told that we are solo agents, or "self-made" people who are only responsible for ourselves.

We have been taught to think of ourselves like separate pool balls on a table, clicking against each other but never truly joining. This is a bad explanation of life. It is a way of thinking that makes us sick and disconnects us from the strength of our community.

The mistake of separation

For nearly two hundred years, the systems brought to our shores have focused on the "individual." This way of thinking treats people as separate parts and carves up the land into private blocks. It disconnects the soil from the water and the people from the land.